The Flexible Social Natural

So what's up my friend? This past month has been rather interesting for me. My computer has been down and I have been handling with a lot of setbacks in my life but that is just part of living. What am I supposed to do, whine about it every time a little upset appears?...now, I can do that but if I did, I wouldn't tell you would I? :)

But regardless now I'm back and ready to kick ass! Today, I want to address something that is beyond being a pickup artist, player, pimp, and you name it...and that is the essence of being a "social natural."

In ways, a social natural includes all these things, just being a naturally cool, social guy who can meet and having multiple women in his life and a circle of cool guy friends who respect you. It can be illustrated by water; you flow in every different social situation gracefully that can come up and maneuver through it.

But let's dissect this down a little bit. Being a social natural is a method in itself, being able to recognize the patterns of your interaction out in social gatherings, the things you say and do, and the result you get from them, and then calibrating you upcoming reply for the desired reaction you want.

What I mean by this? Well, we're all familiar with being cocky and funny are some of the numerous magical ingredients to getting the girls into you. Let's say you are talking to a ravishing woman who was raised in the high octane life of LA, and takes that as a challenge and becomes intrigued about you, now your social feedback for your pattern of response in the future to a typical LA woman will be this similar cocky and funny frame.

Now do that on a conservative, small town girl type, and she gets repulsed by your cocky and funny attitude, but you surmise to yourself if that worked for the LA chick, it must for this girl as well, right? But she is a different type of girl, so your social feedback you get from this interaction tells you need to calibrate either by being more funny or decreasing the cocky.

That concludes today. I'll absolutely get more into this in the down the road, but the thing I want you to take from this is in any interaction is to recognize the usual behaviors that will continue to come up in social dynamics. Talk soon!

Gabriel Angelo runs http://www.socialnatural.com, with the unique approach to dating and meeting women, by focusing on developing your "social skills" to be the most socially savvy person you can be, not just with women...but everybody. Although the arts are primarily related to dating and attracting women, they can be applied to other aspects of your life from social, dating, personal, and even professional.

For more information, please visit http://www.socialnatural.com.